I thought it was well written, very rational, and hence should be shared. Things may not turn out as it was expected to, but we should always strive to make it end well, in good spirits and take life as it comes. In the end, the ending of something signals a new beginning, and we should always start something new on the right footing as much as we can, that is with lots of positive vibes, hopes, love and wishes.
Read on, then.
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DO you have a choice? Can you force her to stay because you are not willing to let her go? Sure, you made umpteen sacrifices and spent most of your hard-earned money to hold the relationship. Perhaps it wasn’t enough.
Your anger, disappointment and frustration are justified. What’s worse is the pain of losing the woman you expected to marry. But she has her reasons for breaking off. A long distance relationship is always difficult and she found someone during your absence. It does seem cold, calculating and callous on her part but perhaps love could not be sustained under stress.
Many relationships fail the test of time, trial and tribulations. Forcing the issue will only bring you more pain. You could talk to her again, try to move her heart. But if it proves futile, then accept it. You cannot do more when her mind has been made up and she will not be swayed. However, contain your rage and bitterness. Do not end a relationship in anger and hatred because you suffer the destructive consequences.
If you love someone so much, allow her to go with good memories and peace in her heart. Forgive so that you, too, can soon find your own fulfilment and happiness.
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